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[–]_nousernamesleft_ 193 points194 points  (6 children)

I can almost guarantee the teacher is not expecting a first grader to spend 2 hours on homework. If you haven't already, talk to the teacher and/or your sons pediatrician. While it is possible the teacher is out of touch, it is also possible that most students are spending significantly less time on homework and there is a reason why your son is taking longer. If this is the case, it would be helpful to determine that reason now and start taking steps to address it.

If there is no other factor impacting the length of time it takes for your son to complete his homework and the teacher really is just assigning too much there is nothing wrong with setting a timer at home and only doing some of it. I'm a high school teacher myself and when I assign hw I always give my students an idea of how long it should take and at what point they should move on with their life (ex: "This assignment should take you 20 minutes. If you spend a little longer than that no big deal but if you're still working at the 40 minute mark just stop and we'll go over it together next class.")

[–]k_money25 88 points89 points  (3 children)

This! He said it’s 15 min of reading but his son is turning it into 2 hours. I don’t understand how his son is doing that. I would just cut it off after 15.

[–]this_is_sy 37 points38 points  (1 child)

It's the yelling. And the flailing. And the battle of wills.

[–]Ok-Art305 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a weeping and a moaning and a gnashing of teeth

[–]Altruistic_Yellow387 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand that part either

[–]StitchinThroughTime 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, something seems very wrong because the child is taking four times as long to do the homework. Generally for kids that young it should be closer to 15 minutes and it's more of a showing the parents what they learned that day then education of a topic. It should be a sheet of paper and a book to read. Now that should take that long, it's probably six questions or activities on that sheet of paper, and most of it is practicing writing. The book should obviously be age appropriate and already in the home. At that age, they're not taking home book assignments. It's the fact that reading to a child is so beneficial that's spending the 10 to 15 minutes to read and age appropriate book helps them.
Opie's child might need additional help or another way to work around doing homework. Clearly, something is not working correctly. It could be that he needs to be fed first and take a nap before doing homework or going to the park and playing for 45 minutes before he can sit down and focus. It could be that the child has ADHD and needs medication because they can not sit still.
Bare minimum the parent needs to contact the teacher informing to inform them that getting homework done is not productive and is taking four times as long as it should be. That teacher should be able to recommend alternatives or needs to accept the boundaries that the child at home can not spend more than 30 minutes on homework every day. If this problem continues without improvement, the next step needs to be scheduling an appointment with the doctor to see if it's a neurological disease or if the child could need glasses or hearing aids.

[–]Glittering-Doctor-47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly